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Virtus #083: The Spring That Was Always the Ocean

A meditation on Kahlil Gibran’s Fear, and what it means to stop dreading the moment we finally become the thing we always were.
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Virtus #082: The Ghost I Was Helping
The older I get, the less eager I am to help. Not because I am colder, but because I noticed who I was really helping. It was never the person in front…
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Virtus #081: Waiting for the Animal
I spent years believing I was owed more, the way a seed waits for rain. But Nature owes a seed nothing. It still has to dig its own way down into the…
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Virtus #080: Being Comes First
A quiet note on Elio D'Anna's idea that you can only have what you are, and on the harder work of deciding who that is without borrowing it from other…
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Virtus #079: Why Nothing Ever Happens to You
Why does your life keep repeating, the maze you walk by heart, and the small step that gives the universe one more way to reach you.
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Virtus #078: The Inventory of Lenses
Five newsletters in a row came out dark. This one didn’t plan to be lighter. It just arrived that way. Because life is cyclic. By design.
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Virtus #077: Choose Your Hard
Some days the most honest thing you can do is admit that none of this was supposed to be easy, and that admission itself is a strange kind of relief.
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Virtus #076: The Two Hours That Made a Year of Parenting Irrelevant
My son built his first video game with an AI bot in one evening. This is not a story about AI. It is a story about how we have been learning wrong for a…
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Virtus #075: The Privilege of Being Alone With Yourself
I am more alone than ever. Not in a sad way. In a way that feels fertile, focused, and almost too comfortable. Here is what I am learning from it.
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Virtus #074: The Wheel I Hate and Need
I hate the cycle of good and bad that governs everything. Then my son got sick and the wheel did what no self-help book could: it reset me to what…
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