Follow the style of Improv and let them come to you--stay agreeable and add unto them that which they wish to add to you. Say yes, and keep going. Fixing someone or some place or thing just drains too much energy. Pausing and then plowing ahead with the solution as a--don't do as I say, but see who I be--is a much more graceful way of affecting and effecting change! A great example is of these YouTubers with lawn mowing as their channel. They just do it without compensation, and sure enough--the neighbors provide all the clues as to the 'owners' of the lot. The meanies also surface and are usually silenced.
Follow the style of Improv and let them come to you--stay agreeable and add unto them that which they wish to add to you. Say yes, and keep going. Fixing someone or some place or thing just drains too much energy. Pausing and then plowing ahead with the solution as a--don't do as I say, but see who I be--is a much more graceful way of affecting and effecting change! A great example is of these YouTubers with lawn mowing as their channel. They just do it without compensation, and sure enough--the neighbors provide all the clues as to the 'owners' of the lot. The meanies also surface and are usually silenced.